Don't break hearts....

Every time you ignore my calls, my heart breaks a little.

Every time you cancel our plans, my heart breaks a little.

Every time you don’t notice that I got a haircut, my heart breaks a little.

Every time you don’t remember my birthday, my heart breaks a little.

Every time you say you’ll call me back, and you don’t, my heart breaks a little.

When I give you another chance, the only thing I am worried about is whether I will ever be able to mend my broken heart, and when you finally go away for good, will I be able to let someone else find a place in there?

I know when you are hurt, you want to ignore people. You want to hurt them. But is that really worth it? Being mean to another person, who loves you, because they hurt you once, or because you don’t want to encourage their feelings, or your own.

Trust me, there is nothing that hurts more than loose ends. If you want to end it with someone, talk to them. Tell them that you are done. Don’t keep people hanging, because hope is what hurts more than a breakup. When you just stop talking to someone, or when you don’t answer someone’s proposal, they still have a small ray of hope, that you might say yes, or that you might answer their calls one day. And in this hope, while you go about your daily lives, that person is still standing where you left them. They try different ways to convince themselves, they try to be strong, they try to make resolutions, and every time they try, they break. And every time they break, they die a little inside.

Please don’t be the reason behind the destruction of another person. Because the wounds that you leave on someone’s heart are worse than physical ones. A person can survive with a broken limb, but no one can survive with a broken heart.

Spread smiles, spread love. Love is a beautiful thing that can fix any problem in the world. So if you are one of those lucky ones who has found someone who loves you, even if you don’t love them back, make sure you at least appreciate their feelings and keep them happy. It won’t even take too much effort, cauz even a simple hi from you can make their day.