The Mystery Unsolved

‘What Women Want?’ This question haunts the best of us. It always leaves men quizzed. And then they assume. Assume that we want money. Assume that we want commitment. Assume that we want attention. Assume so many things. But it’s really none of the above. Yes we do appreciate security, praise and life-long togetherness. But those ain't the things that define our love.

Love is what defines our love. It’s just that. So simple and sweet. It’s only love that we are looking for. This dialogue from ‘Sex and the City’ series got me thinking. And I realized what we all are looking for in a relationship, in love. ‘We are looking for someone to love. Real love. Ridiculous. Inconvenient. Consuming. Can’t live without each other Love. ’

That's is it. For real. I don’t want you to talk to me 24hrs a day. Just talk once, but make me feel that you love me in that one call. Don’t meet me every day, meet me once in a while, but make that meeting special, filled with love. Don’t take me shopping, but sometimes just surprise me with my favorite flower. Don’t compliment me all the time, but when you do, make me feel like a princess, Your Princess. Because that’s what I wanna be. I don’t want to be a part of everything you do, or go everywhere with you, but I want your life to be incomplete without me, because mine is, without you.

So there it is. The Big Secret, unfolded here, in my blog. Go and love your girl. Cause it’s really that simple. That is all she is looking for. :)