What is this world in which we live? Why is people's outlook towards sex changing and going in such a direction? Why is the age of rape victims declining each day? Is it correct to discuss sex openly? Watch adult movies?
It is so sad that we have to talk to our children about sex at such early ages. My niece is just three. But my sister feels the need to tell her now. Wow! Just imagine. 3! It is so disheartening for me to know that we have to teach our kids that sex is a bad thing. When we should actually be teaching them what I recently learnt from a Marathi movie. That it is all indeed supposed to be a beautiful experience. Your first love, your first kiss, your first encounter with the world of this pleasure that we do not talk about outside of our rooms, should all be memorable and sweet. It should be a result of the love you feel for someone. It should be with someone you trust and at an age when you are matured to tell the different between infatuations, attractions and love.
Every time a girl is victimized, the say it is her fault. Women should dress appropriately. But what's their excuse of assaulting a little girl who doesn't even know the meaning of 'dressing appropriately'. Parents have to talk to their kids they say. But when? When they are 15? When they are 13? 10? 8? 7? 5? 3? When? Will the rapists and molesters decide this for us. Why should we have to talk to our little children about offenders? Why should we tell them that this world is full of bad people? Is this why we bring them into this world? Whom should we protect them from? Neighbors? Uncles? Bus drivers? People they call Brothers?
People are exposed to adult movies and clips over the internet freely. Is this exposure to sex correct? Is that an acceptable excuse to rape someone? How can you live with yourself knowing you have ruined someone's life? What kind of mindset is this? It is both shocking and hurtful to know that some of these men have families and kids of their own.
My heart cries when I see what childhood is turning into. You can't let your kids out. When a stranger looks at them and smiles we take them and walk away from there. We are living in a world where we don't trust anyone. Imagine the condition of the parents who have to leave their kids alone. Every day of their lives would be so scary. Hoping that their little ones are safe. In these times, neighbors are supposed to be your extended family. They are supposed to be looking after your children not looking for opportunities. This criminal offence definitely deserves capital punishment. In fact it should be so severe that the next time a person should be scared even to look at a girl offensively.
It is so sad that we have to talk to our children about sex at such early ages. My niece is just three. But my sister feels the need to tell her now. Wow! Just imagine. 3! It is so disheartening for me to know that we have to teach our kids that sex is a bad thing. When we should actually be teaching them what I recently learnt from a Marathi movie. That it is all indeed supposed to be a beautiful experience. Your first love, your first kiss, your first encounter with the world of this pleasure that we do not talk about outside of our rooms, should all be memorable and sweet. It should be a result of the love you feel for someone. It should be with someone you trust and at an age when you are matured to tell the different between infatuations, attractions and love.
People are exposed to adult movies and clips over the internet freely. Is this exposure to sex correct? Is that an acceptable excuse to rape someone? How can you live with yourself knowing you have ruined someone's life? What kind of mindset is this? It is both shocking and hurtful to know that some of these men have families and kids of their own.
My heart cries when I see what childhood is turning into. You can't let your kids out. When a stranger looks at them and smiles we take them and walk away from there. We are living in a world where we don't trust anyone. Imagine the condition of the parents who have to leave their kids alone. Every day of their lives would be so scary. Hoping that their little ones are safe. In these times, neighbors are supposed to be your extended family. They are supposed to be looking after your children not looking for opportunities. This criminal offence definitely deserves capital punishment. In fact it should be so severe that the next time a person should be scared even to look at a girl offensively.
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